It is believed that men spend very short time to dress up.
For the women, wow! Some women are described as having to spend as long as an hour or more just to dress up. Whatever the excuses are, it has become habitual with some people who now find it difficult to make a change.
Many husbands, including those who profess so much love for their wives, have had to at one time or the other, get annoyed or disappointed with their wives for spending so much time trying to dress-up for an occasion.
While some women would naturally take their time to get prepared for an outing, some who may be time-conscious actually get delayed if they have to tie a gele (women’s headgear) or wear their make-up properly.
While some husbands have decided not to nag any longer about the time their wives spend on dressing-up, they have resorted to ensuring that the women begin to get dressed for at least 30 minutes to an hour before they would go for bath. For some women it is good idea, but some others think that the men are merely exaggerating.
In summary however;
There’s a general view that a lot of women ‘waste’ time trying to create attention for everything they put on.
Some may be done with dressing up, but end up spending hours battling with their gele.
Some women get so annoying with the dressing-up issue that their husbands leave them behind for occasions, yet they never change from that habit.
Some men have had to call off attending events when they consider that so much time has been wasted by their wife’s dressing time.
Some people think that there shouldn’t be a fuss over the matter because women can learn to begin dressing up earlier or they waste all the time and meet up the event much later.
What do you think?
Tying the gele is what consumes my time. I hate the sound of the car horn when I am tying that gele. These days I just go to church with my hair neatly styled o jare. No need for all that stress!
Thank you o my friend. At least, your sweetheart will not be kept waiting for hours. IF I need to tie gele, I either start earlier or take it into the car. Any how, I find a way out of it, to avoid complaints!
Believe it or not, I AM the one who has to wait (sometimes getting annoyed sef)! Over the years, I have learned to ask my mgm to have his shower first and then start dressing before I go take mine just so I don't have to wait too long before he is done! Don't ask me what he is doing o cos he has no gele to tie! Lol!
Another thing you might not believe being as I am Yoruba by birth (Ibibio by marriage), I don't do geles. In fact the only geles I have are from buying aso ebi or ones my mom left to me. When I do have to tie them, I just get a professional to do it. It is less stress o jare.
Ah! We will have to look at men who take their time to dress up; at least so that it's not only women who get the blame. Back to your not doing gele; it's very strange for a Yoruba woman not to, but i'll take it that your husband has influenced you greatly with Ibibio dress culture! Why not, if you ask.
I do gele in my case, but I like them very moderate sha.Lol!
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